I'm fine.
This was definitely me - utterly exhausted as a single parent and sole provider of four children under seven and putting on that everything was ok. I felt judged, tired, inadequate, and ineffective at almost everything. I felt edgy, unhappy and anxious that I wasn’t doing enough or good enough.
Did I make time to take care of myself by reminding myself that I was awesome just as I was with all my imperfections? No way. No time. I just kept surviving and wearing myself down while pretending I was superwoman.
As I look back now I see that I already had everything I needed to be a great mom, employee, friend, and leader. I just needed to slow down enough to be gentle with myself in order to be gentle with others. I needed to listen and stop talking. I needed to be curious instead of judgmental because as I judged others I was judging myself far worse.
Take care of yourself first. All roads lead from there. Self-acceptance trumps all.
My leadership, relationships and happiness changed when I stopped being a victim and chose a mindful curiosity about myself and everything around me. I adopted mindful daily practices that keep me grounded and focused in curiosity about myself and others so that doubt, judgment and cynicism have no place to root. These routines are a world class workout for the mind. They instill confidence and executive presence for high performance and better connection with the people who matter. A great night’s sleep is a bonus.
Here is a link to the FREE Flow-on-the-Go Guide tool that I use everyday and that my executive coaching clients use to develop and sustain this evolution of happiness. Remember - Success is freedom. Not more hours.
https://www.maryleegannon.com/flow-on-the-go-guide-email
Watch my new FREE Training on Three Ways to Move to the Next Level In Your Career Right Now to 1) identify the right role for you, 2) position your transferable skills and 3) create a career portfolio that sells you before you even get an interview. If you don't know where you will be at the end of the year, you are already there.
Your coach,
Mary Lee
P.S. Feel free to send this link to someone who could benefit from it. We are all walking down the same road in life looking for a hand to hold. Sometimes we must be the hand that reaches out.
Mary Lee Gannon, ACC, CAE is an executive coach and 19-year corporate CEO who helps leaders have more effective careers, happier lives and better relationships. Request a free consultation call now.
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